The de Blasio kids already have tackled the first order of business at Gracie Mansion, their new home: Picking their bedrooms.
Duncan Wagner, a son of late Mayor Robert Wagner, hopes they chose well.
A rueful Wagner, 66, still recalls his brother’s prime roost
overlooking the East River — and his own less-than-scenic view of a
police guard booth after his father’s 1953 election.
“I think my brother got first pick because he was older,” Wagner recalled.
When Mayor-elect
Bill de Blasio,
his wife, Chirlane McCray, and their two children swap their humble
Brooklyn rowhouse for the elegant East Side mansion next year, the teens
will become members of an exclusive club.
The landmark house, which became the official mayoral residence in
1942, has served as home to only 10 other children across the seven
decades since Fiorello LaGuardia and his family first arrived.
Mayor LaGuardia votes at 109th St. and Madison Ave. as his wife and kids look on.
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Dante, 16, will live in the mansion full time while finishing his last two years at Brooklyn Technical High School.
Sister Chiara, 19, attends college 3,000 miles away but will share the
historic space for summers and holidays. (And no more family fights over
the one shared bathroom in Park Slope. Each of the four Gracie Mansion
bedrooms upstairs has its own bathroom.)
The mayor-elect announced the move last Wednesday, after lengthy
deliberations and a secret family visit to the rambling home over the
Thanksgiving weekend.
The Daily News reached out to the surviving mayoral children —
including Eric LaGuardia, now an 83-year-old retired English professor
in Seattle — for advice and anecdotes about their days at Gracie.
John Lindsay Jr. went through his adolescence in the mayoral mansion,
arriving at age 5 in 1966 and departing at age 13. He remembers playing
football on the lawn, trick-or-treating in the neighborhood — and
sneaking cigarettes in the attic.
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Eric LaGuardia, son of former Mayor LaGuardia, in Seattle in 2009.
The last didn’t go over very well with his father, two-term
Mayor John Lindsay.
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“My father was saying, ‘It’s one thing to try it, but in the attic? The
house would go up like a tinderbox,’ ” recalled Lindsay, 53, a retired
Florida landscaper.
Duncan Wagner, now retired from the Department of Education, recalled
his own tobacco experiment: “One of the policemen took me to buy a pack
of cigarettes.”
The Gracie detectives also offered Wagner occasional homework aid —
until his parents got wind of it “and sent me away to boarding school.”
The mansion was named for its first owner, 18th century Scottish
merchant Archibald Gracie, whose guests at the wood-frame “country home”
included Alexander Hamilton and Gov. De Witt Clinton.
The Wagner family. Robert Wagner was mayor from 1954-1965.
Gracie sold the home in 1823 after falling on financial hard times,
with two other families moving in. The city foreclosed on the property
in 1896 to settle an unpaid tax debt.
Kathy Lindsay Lake, the eldest of the four Lindsay kids, was a high
school student like Dante when her family settled in from 1966 through
1973.
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The then-19-year-old was married in June 1970 at a Gracie Mansion
ceremony, with guests gathered beneath a yellow and white tent on the
lawn.
“I think the most important thing I would say — not necessarily to
Dante, but more to his parents — is that they make every effort to make
this a family home and not a showcase,” said Lake, a former Daily News
writer and mother of two.
She credited her mom, Mary, with turning the official residence into a cozy spot for the family of six.
Bill Meurer
John Lindsay, who was mayor from 1966-1973, with his family.
“She made it into a real family home, as well as a place my father
could work,” she recalled. “And people could feel welcome in there.”
Her brother John recalls meeting some bold-faced names at the mansion,
including comedic genius Charlie Chaplin and Ethiopian Emperor Haile
Selassie.
There were plenty of other less-memorable encounters.
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“You’d shake hands, bow, say ‘It’s a pleasure to meet you’ — and you
would go about riding your bicycle,” he recalled. “They’d go back to
politics.”
Wagner recalled an embarrassing mansion run-in when he was 11 years old
and met humorless Gov. Averell Harriman at a cocktail party.
Richard Corkery
Mayor Rudolph Giuliani and
wife Donna Hanover give daughter Caroline a lesson in the fine art of
making the bat meet the ball on the lawn at Gracie Mansion.
“Gov. Harriman was in the kitchen, doing something in the pantry,” he
recounted. “He had a tux on. I was a kid, I didn’t know . . . I went up
to him and said, ‘Are you our new butler?’ He was stunned!”
Democratic presidential candidate John F. Kennedy was another Gracie
Mansion guest. Wagner recalled his excitement at meeting the handsome,
charismatic politician.
“My mother showed him my bedroom,” he recounted. “Yup, that figures — it was a total mess.”
Eric LaGuardia, who moved into the mansion with his family, including
his sister Jean, from their apartment at 1274 Fifth Ave., said he still
enjoys following Big Apple politics.
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But when asked for his memories about growing up Gracie, or advice for the de Blasios, he politely apologized.
Richard Corkery
Mayor Giuliani with daughter Caroline, son Andrew, wife Donna Hanover and their dog, Goalie.
“I don’t give interviews,” he told a reporter over the phone. “Why don’t you try the Wagners?”
De Blasio becomes the 10th mayor to reside in Gracie Mansion, where
there has been none of the noisy hum of family life during the three
terms of Mayor Bloomberg.
The billionaire businessman used Gracie for official business and
receptions but opted to stay in his tony Upper East Side townhouse.
Last year, he suggested all future mayors should pass on using the
mansion as their home — even though he donated $5 million of his fortune
to spruce the place up.
Former Mayor Ed Koch, a bachelor who spent 12 years there, initially
felt the same way. The incoming mayor couldn’t imagine leaving his cozy
Greenwich Village apartment — until sharing dinner with family members
in the house.
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Dante and Chiara de Blasio get a big, new temporary home.
“It was so wonderful I said to myself, ‘You’d have to be a fool not to
move in,’ ” Koch said in the book “Gracie Mansion: A Celebration of New
York City’s Mayoral Residence.”
“I moved in.”
The Giulianis, with son Andrew and daughter Caroline, were the last
family with kids in the two-story home with its parlor rooms,
million-dollar kitchen, sprawling front porch, blooming magnolias and
East River views.
Andrew, now 27, stressed that kids in the mansion are under the media
microscope — a situation that’s only grown worse in the dozen years
since his dad, Rudy, left office.
“Make sure that you think through your decisions and understand that
your actions will be scrutinized to a much greater degree than your
friends’,” he advised.
But he, like the rest, said living in Gracie Mansion was a once-in-a-lifetime experience to be cherished.
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Dante and Chiara will be the first kids to grace Gracie Mansion since Giuliani's children lived there.
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Giuliani, only 8 when his family moved there in 1994, urged the de
Blasio kids to get friendly with the day-to-day workers at the mayoral
residence.
“You can develop life-long friendships with some wonderful people,” he said.
All the ex-residents advised the incoming kids to enjoy the house, the
cook, and grounds, and to also show the venerable home a proper amount
of respect.
“Don’t use magic marker on the wall,” offered Kathy Lindsay Lake.
“Don’t try to hit a flop shot over any of the chandeliers, no matter
how good your golf game is,” said Giuliani, now a golf pro.
The 24-hour news cycle isn’t the only thing that’s changed since the
Lindsays lived there in the ’60s. John Lindsay Jr. recalled the Cold War
days when the mansion included a bomb shelter.
“When we were kids,” he said, “we’d go down there to play hide and seek.”
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